Responding to Blame Without Losing Yourself
Conflict Resolution
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2m 24s
Oren Jay Sofer explores how to respond when someone directs anger or blame toward you, especially when their accusations feel inaccurate or unfair. Through an NVC lens, the Oren emphasizes balancing self-respect, honesty, empathy, and clarity about your purpose in the conversation. Viewers learn how offering understanding can help de-escalate reactivity while still allowing space to set limits, correct misunderstandings, and maintain authenticity.
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