Understanding Judgment Through the Lens of NVC
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What do we really mean when we talk about judgment? In this thoughtful exploration, Aya Caspi examines how judgment shapes the way we interpret ourselves, others, and the world around us. Drawing from Nonviolent Communication and spiritual practice, she unpacks the many forms judgment can take — including blame, praise, comparison, shame, demands, and “should” thinking — and how deeply these patterns are embedded in our language and culture. She offers both awareness and practical insight into recognizing judgment and beginning to shift toward greater compassion and connection.
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