Parenting Series: Compliance and the "Yes" Inside the "No"
NVC and Parenting
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11m
Inbal Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer:
Inbal responds to the question "Is bribery an acceptable tool for compliance?' and helps us understand the five habitual reasons we do things. She further outlines two primary questions to consider when you're tempted to settle for merely getting your child's compliance:
- What would you want your child to do differently?
- What would you like your child's reasons to be to do what you want?
Keywords:
- consciousness
- demands
- empathy
- feelings
- self empathy
- judgment
- listening
- conflict resolution
- families
- parenting
- disagreement is progress
- Inbal Kashtan
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