Positive Relationships in Parenting
NVC and Parenting
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Roxy Manning, Certified NVC Trainer:
Roxy Manning emphasizes positive relationships in parenting, while highlighting acceptance and understanding. She stresses the importance of being aware of one's needs, attuning to the other person's needs, fostering trust, and encouraging open communication, especially with children. This approach involves a balance between meeting both sets of needs for a healthier dynamic. Some key points expressed in this video are:
- Acceptance and Understanding:
A positive relationship is built on accepting and understanding the other person, especially in terms of their preferences and needs. Roxy shares a personal example of allowing their children to have food preferences and finding a strategy that meets everyone's needs.
- Awareness of Own Needs:
It is crucial to be aware of one's own needs in a relationship. While parenting often involves sacrifices, being conscious of personal needs and making intentional choices contributes to a healthier dynamic.
- Attunement to Other Person's Needs:
Positive relationships require a mutual exchange where both parties attend to each other's needs.
- Attachment and Trust:
Roxy introduces the concept of attachment, highlighting the trust that even when not fully aware of the other person's needs, they are acting with the best capacity to attend to those needs.
- Communication and Articulation of Needs:
Encouraging open communication, especially with children, involves helping them articulate their needs.
- Roxy Manning
- NVC parenting
- attune
- acceptance
- understanding
- needs
- trust
- attachment
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