From Control to Collaboration: Reclaiming Shared Decision-Making
NVC in Group Settings
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Miki Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Miki Kashtan shares how decision-making can move beyond either/or thinking into true integration—where your needs matter and so do others'. She speaks to the vulnerability and power of co-creating choices rooted in mutual care, not control. Miki invites us to imagine a world where we don't have to choose between autonomy and togetherness—where we trust in finding solutions that work for everyone.
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- Miki Kashtan
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- shared decision making
- integration
- interdependence
- autonomy
- mutuality
- shared power
- trust
- needs consciousness
- responsibility
- connection
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