From What's Fair to What's Possible
NVC in Group Settings
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4m 34s
Miki Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer:
So many of us have been taught to solve conflicts by what is "fair." However, Miki Kashtan states that fairness is a separating concept. In this video, she describes how when we do not have the conditions to care for all needs involved, when we live within separation, fairness is second best.
- Miki Kashtan
- capacity
- limits
- fairness
- needs
- support
- agreements
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