Mediating Conflict Conversations with Observation, Feeling, Need, and Request
Vintage NVC
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42m
John Kinyon, Certified NVC Trainer: Mediating a conflict conversation can be challenging – but with tools and practice, that challenge can be transformed. If you're curious about the specific steps needed to achieve that transformation, join John for an exploration of his non-dual mindfulness practice, grounded on NVC's core components of:
- Observation
- Feeling
- Need
- Request
John leads a thoughtful role-playing demonstration structured around how this process can be used to mediate a conflict conversation.
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