Beyond NVC Basics

Beyond NVC Basics

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Beyond NVC Basics
  • Judgment and Radical Compassion

    Aya Caspi, Certified NVC Trainer

    A theory of judgment is that it is how we make sense of life and quickly assess what is safe or not safe. However, this has somehow been translated into right/wrong thinking. In this video, Aya explores different kinds of judgments and examples of each.

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  • From Shame to Vulnerability: 4 Session Course

    10 items

    Liv Larsson, Certified NVC Trainer
    Time Investment: 4 hours 19 minutes, plus handouts
    Recorded in 2021

    This course is part of the NVC Library subscription service. The subscription model allows for streaming (no downloads) as long as you maintain your monthly or yearly subscription.

    It is also...

  • NVC Mediation Role Play: From Judgement to Vulnerability

    Aya Caspi, Certified NVC Trainer

    In this powerful mediation demonstration, a participant shares the pain and frustration that arise around physical touch, rejection, and the fear of hurting a partner’s feelings. Through compassionate reflection and skillful translation, Aya Caspi reframes judgme...

  • NVC Zen: The Paradox of Responsibility

    2 items

    Aya Caspi, Certified NVC Trainer

    How do we not take responsibility for other’s experiences while taking full responsibility for the impact of our choices? Come learn how to support the move from emotional “slavery” to emotional liberation, while still maintaining interdependence. You will come a...

  • Do the Right Thing! Move Beyond "Right and Wrong" and into CHOICE

    3 items

    Kathleen Macferran and Jared Finkelstein, Certified NVC Trainers

    This session explores the practice of choosing to untangle right/wrong thinking so you can hold all views with compassion. From this place, we find strategies to address the complexities of needs within differences. Learn to create...

  • Overcoming Unworthiness to Express Vulnerable Honesty

    Arnina Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Does unworthiness keep you from expressing vulnerably and honestly? Afraid of being "found out?" Join CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan as she explores this topic with a workshop participant to discern stories from needs, recognize the tension between se...

  • Witnessing Humanity

    Arnina Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer

    Arnina talks about what she calls "witnessing humanity," touching on the gift of presence, empathy vs. identification and staying present in the face of intensity.

    Learn how to:

    - Transform judgments of others
    - Stay present in the face of intensity and ...

  • About Guilt and How Apologizing Falls Short

    Arnina Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Join CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan as she examines the nature of guilt and how apologizing often fails to connect us to our needs.

  • Witnessing Humanity

    2 items

    Arnina Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan talks about what she calls "witnessing humanity," touching on the gift of presence, empathy vs. identification and staying present in the face of intensity.&
    Listen to this multimedia resource and learn how to:

    - Trans...

  • About Guilt and How Apologizing Falls Short

    2 items

    Arnina Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Join CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan as she examines the nature of guilt and how apologizing often fails to connect us to our needs.

  • Overcoming Unworthiness to Express Vulnerable Honesty

    2 items

    Arnina Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Does unworthiness keep you from expressing vulnerably and honestly? Afraid of being "found out?" Join CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan as she explores this topic with a workshop participant to discern stories from needs, recognize the tension between se...

  • Inner Maps of Conflict

    John Kinyon, Certified NVC Trainer

    In this brief audio segment, John Kinyon offers a guided tour of our inner maps of conflict, including interpersonal mediation, chooser/educator, enemy images and making amends maps.

  • Expressing and Receiving No in NVC Consciousness

    John Kinyon, Certified NVC Trainer: How we deal with “no” is a litmus test of our state of consciousness around power. It is how we see if we are truly making a request or a demand, both in how we respond to someone when we don’t receive a “yes” from them or when we don’t have a “yes” to give som...

  • Valuing My Needs When I Habitually Don't

    John Kinyon, Certified NVC Trainer: Listen to John answer an NVC Library member's question about what we can do when we habitually place other's needs ahead our own. Healing and change can be reached through compassionate self-connection, needs awareness, mourning and mindfulness.

  • Naturalizing NVC: A brief summary of the 4-part OFNR process

    The four components of Nonviolent Communication are more than a communication formula—they are practices for transforming how we experience ourselves and others. Yvette Erasmus explores observation, feelings, needs, and requests as pathways to greater curiosity, embodied awareness, connection, an...

  • Speaking About the War in Gaza Without Recreating It Between Us

    Explore how Nonviolent Communication principles can transform highly polarized conversations into opportunities for connection and understanding. In this real-life case study, Aya Caspi demonstrates how empathy, reflection, and a focus on shared human needs can de-escalate conflict around deeply ...

  • The Tao of Empathy: Practice the Four Elements of Empathic Connection

    John Kinyon, Certified NVC Trainer: “The Chinese philosopher, Chuang-Tzu, stated that true empathy requires listening with the whole being: ‘…it demands the emptiness of all the faculties. And when the faculties are empty, then the whole being listens. There is then a direct grasp of what is righ...

  • The Tao of Empathy: Practice the Four Elements of Empathic Connection (2009)

    3 items

    John Kinyon, Certified NVC Trainer: “The Chinese philosopher, Chuang-Tzu, stated that true empathy requires listening with the whole being: ‘…it demands the emptiness of all the faculties. And when the faculties are empty, then the whole being listens. There is then a direct grasp of what is righ...

  • Building Restorative Systems to Transform Conflict: 10 Session Course

    11 items

    Ceri Buckmaster, Jo McHale and Sarah Ludford, Certified NVC Trainers
    Time Investment: 11 hours 17 minutes, plus handouts
    Recorded in 2021

    This course is part of the NVC Library subscription service. The subscription model allows for streaming (no downloads) as long as you maintain your monthly ...

  • Can NVC Be Taught Without Using OFNR?

    Miki Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Miki Kashtan explains has developed a path to teaching NVC without relying on OFNR: Principle-based Teaching.

  • Tao of Empathy: 6 Session Course

    17 items

    John Kinyon, Certified NVC Trainer
    Time Investment: 5 hours, plus handouts
    Recorded in 2019

    This course is part of the NVC Library subscription service. The subscription model allows for streaming (no downloads) as long as you maintain your monthly or yearly subscription.

    It is also available ...

  • From Needs to Essence: Robert Gonzales' Four Levels of Being

    Iris Bawidamann shares Robert Gonzales' model of the unfolding of essence. His model shows how universal human needs can serve as a gateway to deeper levels of consciousness. Beginning with needs and values, Robert's model invites us to connect with the longings of the heart, the qualities of bei...

  • Addictions and Intrinsic Needs

    Mary Mackenzie and Susan Skye, Certified NVC Trainer: In this compelling dialogue, veteran CNVC Certified Trainers, Susan Skye and Mary Mackenzie, discuss the intrinsic needs present in addictive behaviors, and how Nonviolent Communication aligns with the 12-step programs’ process for treating ad...

  • Looking at "Shoulds"

    Sylvia Haskvitz, Certified NVC Trainer:
    Using real-life examples from class participants, Sylvia Haskvitz demonstrates the life-changing results of clarifying the needs underlying "shoulds." Some of the situations covered in this audio are:

    - A grandmother shares how she was able to spend time...