Four D's of Disconnection: Diagnosis, Denial, Demand, Deserve
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Mary Mackenzie shares how Marshall Rosenberg's Four D's of Disconnection live in her. Learn how you can reframe the 4 D's to enhance connection.
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1. Diagnosis (judgment, analysis, criticism, comparison); 2. Denial of Responsibility; 3. Demand; 4. 'Deserve' oriented language.
Keywords:
- integrating NVC
- diagnosis
- deserve
- denial
- demands
- needs
- Mary Mackenzie
- Marshall Rosenberg
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