NVC Life Hacks 9: If Yes Really Means No
Beyond NVC Basics
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Shantigarbha Warren, Certified NVC Trainer:
In this NVC Life Hack, we look at those circumstances when we're saying yes ... but only kinda! Because we're still actually saying no. Shantigarbha and Gesine look at the needs that aren't being met.
Keywords:
- compromise
- tips
- needs
- unmet needs
- saying no
- Shatigharba Warren
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