Recently Added
Explore the newest videos added to the NVC Library—featuring fresh teachings, insights, and inspiring NVC demonstrations. This section highlights recently added content so you can easily discover what’s new and continue growing in your NVC practice.
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Equitable Facilitation: Navigating Attention, Needs, and Impact in Group Dynamic
Roxy Manning, Certified NVC Trainer: Roxy Manning shares that facilitating equitable group dynamics involves tracking attention, needs, purpose alignment, resources, and impact. Identifying patterns in attention distribution, centered needs, and maintaining alignment with the purpose enhances inc...
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Empathy vs. Sympathy
Miki Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Miki Kashtan clarifies the distinction between empathy and sympathy.
This is an excerpt from Miki Kashtan's 7 part course Naturalizing NVC Language, which is also available in the NVC Library.
Keywords:
- imagination
- empathic presence
- presence
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Empathy Hacking: The Art and Science of Empathy Guessing
Dian Killian, Certified NVC Trainer: Making Empathy Guessing Easy, via Semantics
Empathy guessing when I was new to NVC seemed magical and mysterious. How could that other person have known that about me? And seen inside me — often in ways I'd missed myself.
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Empathy Buddy Practice Helps Develop Empathy Skills
Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: Are you looking to deepen your connection to Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and build powerful empathy skills? In this short video, Mary Mackenzie shares how finding an empathy buddy transformed her life and practice. From learning to give and receive empath...
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Empathy as Presence: Transforming Relationships with NVC
Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: Mary Mackenzie reminds us that empathy is not about fixing—it's about presence and truly seeing the world through another's eyes. With the tools of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), we can show others that we deeply hear and understand not just their words, bu...
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Empathizing with Loved Ones
Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: Mary Mackenzie explains that empathizing with our closest loved ones can be difficult because they matter so deeply to us, past experiences might create emotional barriers, and we might fear losing ourselves in the process.
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Embracing Impermanence: Finding Comfort in Life's Moments
Robert Gonzales, Certified NVC Trainer: Robert Gonzales shares how embracing impermanence involves continually growing in his ability to accept unmet needs, to be comfortable with discomfort and unwanted experiences. Robert shares a quote by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow about letting it rain, empha...
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Effective Collaboration
Jim & Jori Manske, Certified NVC Trainer: Plowing ahead without collaboration can result in taking 1 step forward and 2 steps back. Would you enjoy more ease and co-operation with others? More partnership? More warmth?
Learning more about collaborating effectively can help you:
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Dialogues with Our Shame
Giorgos Tsitsirigkos, Certified NVC Trainer: Shame is often an invisible companion that travels along with you in your journey, influencing your choices and how you experience life. Often without clear, outward signs, shame can be the unconscious power that prevents you from living life fully — o...
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Developing Your Tracking Skills (Part 2)
Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: Mary continues her discussion of tracking skills, focusing on tracking requests, agreements with the group and tracking time. Mary also examines how to monitor the purpose of the session, discerning if and when to shift the agreement about the purpose for me...
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Developing Your Tracking Skills (Part 1)
Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: Mary offers tips for developing effective tracking skills, including how the energy of the group is managed discerning the qualities of presence for each of the members, and monitoring group participation and striving for a balance of inclusion.
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Developing Your Own Teaching Exercises in 8 Steps
Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: Borrowing teaching exercises from other people is fun and can be relatively easy. However, when we develop our own activities, our learning of the topic that we're teaching is magnified and deepened even more. Developing our own teaching exercises is a power...
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Developing a Needs Consciousness
Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer
Shifting to a needs-based perspective is one of the most powerful and challenging aspects of integrating Nonviolent Communication (NVC) into daily life. In this short video, Mary Mackenzie offers three simple, practical tips to help you cultivate needs consc...
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De-escalate Yourself: 3 Centering Practices in Times of Conflict
Jesse Wiens Chu, Certified NVC Trainer: In times of conflict, it's easy to lose touch with ourselves and our needs. In this heartfelt session, Jesse Wiens Chu shares three practical centering practices—rooted in the principles of Nonviolent Communication (NVC)—to help you find your way back to se...
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Dealing with Loss: Engaging with Someone's Grief for the World
Kristin Masters, Certified NVC Trainer: When faced with someone's grief for the world, how do you engage with them in a way that is informed? In this session, Kristin suggests exploring what they might be grieving, what they're afraid of losing, and what it is that they love.
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Dealing with Hecklers and People You Don’t Like When Facilitating
Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: Listen to Mary tackle one of the greatest challenges of facilitating an NVC group: How do you deal with hecklers and people you don't like? Mary offers insightful tips and helpful guidance.
Keywords:- Group Facilitation Tips
- groups
- listening
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Create Space to Support Change
Itzel Hayward and Kathy Simon, Certified NVC Trainer: What is empowered speech and how does it link to interdependence? How do you speak in a way that increases the chances of being heard and creates space where individuals are more inclined to listen and act? In this excerpt from the 2021 course...
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Create a Workshop Outline in 12 Easy Steps
Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: For many people thinking about creating a workshop outline is overwhelming because they focus on the whole thing at once. Breaking the process down to bite-size pieces eliminates much stress and overwhelm and brings fun and creativity to the process. here's ...
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Conversations about Death
Rachelle Lamb, Certified NVC Trainer: It seems death cafes are everywhere these days. But how changed are we by the conversations we're now having? Not everyone is open to talking about death. It may well be that someone in your life is nearing the end of their days and their refusal to talk abou...
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Contextualizing the NVC Process
Miki Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Miki Kashtan explains how NVC's OFNR process is a tool to train our consciousness, rather than the "correct" way to speak.
This is an excerpt from Miki Kashtan's 7 part course Naturalizing NVC Language, which is also available in the NVC Library.
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Connecting Requests: The Steering Wheel of NVC Dialogue
Sarah Peyton, Certified NVC Trainer: In this insightful snippet from Sarah Peyton, discover how connecting requests can transform conversations into meaningful exchanges. Referred to as the "steering wheel" of NVC dialogue, connecting requests shift the focus from action to connection, creating c...
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Confirmation and Feedback Requests
Jim & Jori Manske, Certified NVC Trainer: Jim and Jori Manske share the wisdom of Marshall Rosenberg, the founder of Nonviolent Communication (NVC). Join them to learn why knowing what you want before speaking is essential for clear, meaningful interactions. This snippet from their eight session ...
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Clarifying the Confusion About Responsibility for Others' Feelings
Yoram Mosenzon, Certified NVC Trainer: Yoram Mosenzon explores the core NVC principle that others do not cause our feelings—our interpretations and unmet needs do. Through a relatable and humorous example, the trainer highlights how different people respond with a wide range of emotions to the sa...
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Boundaries and Exquisite Self-Care
Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer
The purpose of setting boundaries is to prevent harm to yourself and others. Boundaries are about knowing yourself and teaching others about you. You must ask yourself:
What do you need to prune the weeds in your relationships?
What will you welcome into your space?
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