NVC Beginner's Pathway/ NVC Basics

NVC Beginner's Pathway/ NVC Basics

The Beginner’s Pathway offers a clear starting point for anyone new to Nonviolent Communication. This curated set of resources introduces the core ideas of NVC in a simple, accessible way, helping you build confidence with concepts like observations, feelings, needs, and requests while beginning to apply them in everyday life. Seasoned learners are also welcome to use this pathway as a gentle refresher.

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NVC Beginner's Pathway/ NVC Basics
  • NVC Life Hacks 8: Saying No

    Shantigarbha Warren, Certified NVC Trainer

    It can be difficult to be authentic when that means saying no. So how do we say no in a way that invites people to listen? Here are our four top tips for finding the courage to say no.

    Keywords:
    - tips
    - saying no
    - authenticity
    - yes behind t...

  • NVC Tools: Observations, Feelings, Needs and Requests

    Wes Taylor, Certified NVC Trainer: In this introduction to Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Wes Taylor discusses the two basic aspects of NVC, the consciousness and the tools that help manifest the consciousness.

    By using his own examples and those put forth by participants, Wes touches on the ...

  • Exercise: Connecting Sensations to Emotions and Needs

    Dian Killian, Certified NVC Trainer: Puzzling about needs and feelings? Check out this excerpt from Dian Killian's course, Embracing the Body: Somatic Self Empathy, where she leads participants through an exercise that demonstrates how our physical sensations connect us to our feelings and needs....

  • On Self-Empathy: An Exploration of Connecting to our Needs

    Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer and Mark Schultz: What is self-empathy? Mary Mackenzie leads you on an exploration of self-empathy through an exercise that will show you how you can easily connect more deeply with your needs.

    Keywords:

    - exercises/practices
    - giraffe and jackal
    -...

  • Parenting Series: Needs, Strategies and Partnership

    Inbal Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: In this video download, expert parent trainer and author of Parenting From Your Heart, Inbal Kashtan clarifies the difference between needs and strategies, and why the distinction is important in our parenting role. A deeper exploration into the concept of "n...

  • Parenting Series: The Importance of Self-Empathy

    Inbal Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Inbal offers parents and anyone with children in their life a lucid discussion of the important role self-empathy plays in creating healthy, supportive relationships.

    Are the strategies you're using right now supporting your goals for the relationships you...

  • Principles of Nonviolent Communication: Identifying Needs

    Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: Let this inspiring video guide you through exercises as if you are actually present at the workshop with Mary Mackenzie! The video opens with Mary leading you through an exercise that generates a physical experience of the NVC consciousness. You will then ex...

  • Reframing OFNR (Observation, Feelings, Needs, and Requests) for the Workplace

    Dian Killian, Certified NVC Trainer: Listen in as Dian presents the Four Steps of Collaborative Communication using everyday words you might hear at work:

    - What is happening / what are you seeing or hearing?
    - What is the impact internally for the people involved?
    - What is driving the s...

  • From Judgment to Need: An NVC Exercise

    Yoram Mosenzon, Certified NVC Trainer

    Yoram Mosenzon shares an exercise and demo to explore the process of identifying observations and using judgments (jackals) to find the needs.

    Keywords:
    - Yoram Mosenzon
    - classical NVC
    - exercises/practices
    - jackal show
    - observation
    - judgme...

  • Unappreciated is NOT a feeling

    Rachelle Lamb, Certified NVC Trainer

    Unappreciated, Judged, Disrespected, Offended, Manipulated ... people use these words to describe feelings but these are all words that describe interpretations instead. They're also words that get people's backs up. Talk about unproductive! The solution? Dev...

  • Beyond Right and Wrong

    Bridget Belgrave, Certified NVC Trainer:

    In this vintage NVC video, Bridget Belgrave, CNVC Certified Trainer from the United Kingdom, uses a Powerpoint presentation to demonstrate the key principles of Nonviolent Communication. Starting with needs at the center, Bridget builds a visual structur...

  • Without Judgment or Blame

    Bridget Belgrave, Certified NVC Trainer:

    Carl Munson interviews Bridget Belgrave on Traydio, after Carl attends an NVC and Dance Floors workshop with her. Carl shares his reaction to the term “Nonviolent Communication.” Bridget shares how she deals with people"s reaction to the term Nonviolent ...

  • Self-Empathy: Healing from the Inside Out: 6 Session Course

    18 items

    Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer:
    This 6-session course is designed to deepen your ability to connect with self and heal your past through the process of Self-empathy.Known and practiced worldwide, Mary's signature Self-empathy processes provide clear insight into the emotional triggers and...

  • Embracing Empathy: Practice Getting Empathy into Your Bones: 4 Session Course

    13 items

    Kathleen Macferran, Certified NVC Trainer:

    This course recording will help you:

    - Increase clarity of what empathy is and is not
    - Increase self-compassion through self-empathy
    - Provide hands-on practice in empathizing
    - Explore “touching the dream” in empathy
    - Find out what prevents yo...

  • The Amazing Power of Empathy: 4 Session Course

    10 items

    "Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer:

    This item is also available for purchase as a download.
    https://www.nvclibrary.com/products/the-amazing-power-of-empathy

    Have you ever had the experience of being truly heard and understood by another person? Or felt the astounding, breath-taking connect...

  • Creating the Life You Want With Powerful Requests: 5 Session Course

    11 items

    Miki Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer:

    Uncover what prevents you from asking for everything you want without fear. The class includes daily practices for ongoing skill building. Listen to this exciting audio with Miki Kashtan and gain a greater sense of power in your life as you learn to ask fo...

  • Navigating Vulnerability: The Power of Nonviolent Communication

    Yoram Mosenzon, Certified NVC Trainer: From a Nonviolent Communication (NVC) perspective, expressing vulnerabilities by labeling someone as selfish can create disconnection and conflict. Instead of fostering understanding and support, this type of communication often leads to misunderstanding and...

  • Clarifying the Confusion About Responsibility for Others' Feelings

    Yoram Mosenzon, Certified NVC Trainer: Yoram Mosenzon explores the core NVC principle that others do not cause our feelings—our interpretations and unmet needs do. Through a relatable and humorous example, the trainer highlights how different people respond with a wide range of emotions to the sa...

  • Four D's of Disconnection: Diagnosis, Denial, Demand, Deserve

    Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: Mary Mackenzie shares how Marshall Rosenberg's Four D's of Disconnection live in her. Join Mary and learn how you can reframe the 4 D's to enhance connection.

    1. Diagnosis (judgment, analysis, criticism, comparison); 2. Denial of Responsibility; 3. Demand...

  • Empathy vs. Sympathy

    Miki Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Miki Kashtan clarifies the distinction between empathy and sympathy.
    This is an excerpt from Miki Kashtan's 7 part course Naturalizing NVC Language, which is also available in the NVC Library.

    Keywords:

    - imagination
    - empathic presence
    - presence
    ...

  • From Self-Connection to Self-Expression

    Yoram Mosenzon, Certified NVC Trainer

    Video free to watch until June 25, 2026

    Yoram Mosenzon discusses judgmental dialogue and its hidden aim to meet needs. This often creates distance instead of fostering connection. Yoram introduces a self-connection exercise to improve the chances of dialogu...

  • Looking at Anger from an NVC Perspective

    Wes Taylor, Certified NVC Trainer: In this vintage 1999 video, Wes Taylor leads a group of young people in a lively discussion on working with anger. He clarifies that anger is a valid feeling that is a product of "jackal" thinking and points out that anger is never the primary emotion; there is ...

  • Make Peace With All Your Feelings

    Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer

    Yvette Erasmus suggests that making peace with our feelings reduces suffering. Sometimes we want to hurry through our feelings and just feel better. A nonviolent way of working with our feelings is to be present as our feelings change. We will notice that as needs are...

  • NVC Life Hacks 14: Purpose of NVC

    Shantigarbha Warren, Certified NVC Trainer: Nonviolent Communication at its core is about the quality of connection that will lead to everybody's needs being met. In this months 'Purpose of NVC' episode, we ask ourselves five questions that help us gain an awareness of where Nonviolent Communicat...