NVC in Our Inner Experience
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NVC Life Hacks 31: Learning from Limitations
Shantigarbha Warren, Certified NVC Trainer: Whenever we make mistakes, we're often beating ourself up in a way that breeds guilt, fear and/or shame. Nonviolent Communication offers a model based in self-empathy that lets you reflect, process and move forward without the guilt, fear and shame.
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NVC Life Hacks 36: From depression into life
Shantigarbha Warren, Certified NVC Trainer: How can Nonviolent Communication practices support us when we're feeling depressed? Taking a look at some characteristics of depression and how they're linked to unmet needs, we offer some steps to take that help you reconnect with life and others.
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Boundaries and Exquisite Self-Care
Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer
The purpose of setting boundaries is to prevent harm to yourself and others. Boundaries are about knowing yourself and teaching others about you. You must ask yourself:
What do you need to prune the weeds in your relationships?
What will you welcome into your space?
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Tools to Support Relational Attunement
Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:
Yvette Erasmus shares Terry Real's grid as a tool for exploring a spectrum of emotional responses. We all have feelings and sometimes we get dysregulated or frozen up. How do you want to express and be in connection with other people? Can you attune to the relationa...
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Clarifying the Confusion About Responsibility for Others' Feelings
Yoram Mosenzon, Certified NVC Trainer: Yoram Mosenzon explores the core NVC principle that others do not cause our feelings—our interpretations and unmet needs do. Through a relatable and humorous example, the trainer highlights how different people respond with a wide range of emotions to the sa...
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How to Stay Present & Vulnerable in Difficult Conversations
Oren Jay Sofer shares how to stay present and grounded during difficult conversations, especially when we feel judged or criticized. He describes how awareness of bodily sensations—such as tension, trembling, or the urge to react—can help us channel our energy in a constructive way. Oren highligh...
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Pause Difficult Conversations with Skill and Self-Connection
Oren Jay Sofer explains how we can stay grounded and maintain choice during overwhelming or emotionally charged conversations. He highlights the importance of presence—feeling our feet, noticing our breath, and expanding our awareness—to counter the fight-or-flight response and self-regulate. Ore...
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Aesthetic Communication
Movie + 2 extras
In this experiential session from the 2021 Thrive Together Online Festival, Mina Mo introduces Aesthetic Communication as a gentle, body-centered way of connecting with inner experience. Through movement, breath, and creative expression, participants are invited to listen inwardly and express wha...
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Power, Pace, and Presence: NVC Strategies
Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer
This video is free to view until March 12, 2026
Learn how to use Nonviolent Communication to navigate power dynamics by controlling the pace of interactions. Yvette Erasmus explores the differences between mental, emotional, and somatic energy, and demonstrates pract...
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Stay Grounded within Negative Conversations and Pressures of World Events
This video is free to view until March 23, 2026
From Reclaiming Hope event 2025: Jesse Wiens Chu answers 2 questions How do you deal with so much negativity that is prevalent in everyday conversation? How do you stay grounded amidst all the pressure of local and world events?
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Implement 3 Pillars of Nonviolence: Self Care, Reducing Harm, Community Building
From Reclaiming Hope event 2025: Kathleen Macferran answers 2 questions Describe the 3 pillars of nonviolence and how you implement. What do you do when you feel scared?
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What is the Cost of NOT Setting Boundaries
Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:
Just as setting boundaries is beneficial to relationships, NOT setting boundaries can come at a big cost. Listen to Yvette Erasmus share her experience with boundary setting, including:
- What are the costs to setting boundaries?
- What are the benefits?
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Using Right & Wrong Language
Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:
Yvette Erasmus shares that we can translate or shift how we hear right and wrong language. We can use the cue - What is needed? I wonder what they are needing? This helps direct my attention to more relationality.
Keywords
- language of life
- needs
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Setting Loving Boundaries
Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:
How do you protect yourself while staying as connected as possible with others? How can you effectively communicate your limits and boundaries in clear, confident, and compassionate ways that actually enhance and strengthen your relationships?
This session touches ...
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Self Regulation - Moving Outside of Triggers
Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:
Yvette Erasmus shares practices to help us develop a regulated nervous system. We all get hijacked and triggered at some point. When that happens we can travel a blame and shame road or we can greet ourselves with graciousness and self compassion.
It sounds like:
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Make Peace With All Your Feelings
Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer
This video is free to view until March 24, 2026
Yvette Erasmus suggests that making peace with our feelings reduces suffering. Sometimes we want to hurry through our feelings and just feel better. A nonviolent way of working with our feelings is to be present as our ...
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Experiencing Feelings Outside of Right & Wrong
Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:
Many of us have been raised within a right/ wrong culture. From very young ages, we are asked, "What is wrong?" Yvette Erasmus shares a different view where emotions can be seen as expansion and contraction, where they can help us identify our needs.
I celebrate fe...