Beyond NVC Basics

Beyond NVC Basics

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Beyond NVC Basics
  • Experiencing Feelings Outside of Right & Wrong

    Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:

    Many of us have been raised within a right/ wrong culture. From very young ages, we are asked, "What is wrong?" Yvette Erasmus shares a different view where emotions can be seen as expansion and contraction, where they can help us identify our needs.

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  • Self Regulation - Moving Outside of Triggers

    Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:

    Yvette Erasmus shares practices to help us develop a regulated nervous system. We all get hijacked and triggered at some point. When that happens we can travel a blame and shame road or we can greet ourselves with graciousness and self compassion.

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  • Setting Loving Boundaries

    Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:

    How do you protect yourself while staying as connected as possible with others? How can you effectively communicate your limits and boundaries in clear, confident, and compassionate ways that actually enhance and strengthen your relationships?

    This session touches ...

  • Tools to Support Relational Attunement

    Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:

    Yvette Erasmus shares Terry Real's grid as a tool for exploring a spectrum of emotional responses. We all have feelings and sometimes we get dysregulated or frozen up. How do you want to express and be in connection with other people? Can you attune to the relationa...

  • What is the Cost of NOT Setting Boundaries

    Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:

    Just as setting boundaries is beneficial to relationships, NOT setting boundaries can come at a big cost. Listen to Yvette Erasmus share her experience with boundary setting, including:

    - What are the costs to setting boundaries?
    - What are the benefits?
    - Wh...

  • Do the Right Thing! Move Beyond "Right and Wrong" and into CHOICE

    Kathleen Macferran and Jared Finkelstein, Certified NVC Trainers

    This session explores the practice of choosing to untangle right/wrong thinking so you can hold all views with compassion. From this place, we find strategies to address the complexities of needs within differences. Learn to create...

  • NVC Role Play: Listening Beyond Politics

    Aya Caspi demonstrates a role play using Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to connect with someone holding polarized political beliefs. Watch how she uncovers underlying needs, fosters empathy, and models compassionate listening while staying present to her own truth. This practice highlights how NV...

  • Pause Difficult Conversations with Skill and Self-Connection

    Oren Jay Sofer explains how we can stay grounded and maintain choice during overwhelming or emotionally charged conversations. He highlights the importance of presence—feeling our feet, noticing our breath, and expanding our awareness—to counter the fight-or-flight response and self-regulate. Ore...

  • NVC Reference Guides

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  • Self Assessment Matrix

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    Jim and Jori Manske, Certified NVC Trainers

    This self-assessment matrix is a concrete step toward naming and clarifying many skills that you may find valuable in your life. We suggest you periodically assess your skills to track your progress. Listen to this audio overview and download the Self ...

  • Power, Pace, and Presence: NVC Strategies

    Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer

    This video is free to view until March 12, 2026

    Learn how to use Nonviolent Communication to navigate power dynamics by controlling the pace of interactions. Yvette Erasmus explores the differences between mental, emotional, and somatic energy, and demonstrates pract...

  • 3 Levels of Observation

    Roxy Manning, Certified NVC Trainer:

    There is more to the NVC skill of Observation than the external level of what a video camera sees or hears. In this video, Roxy demonstrates that to fully understand what is happening, we need to know all three layers of observation: External, Internal, and S...

  • Implement 3 Pillars of Nonviolence: Self Care, Reducing Harm, Community Building

    From Reclaiming Hope event 2025: Kathleen Macferran answers 2 questions Describe the 3 pillars of nonviolence and how you implement. What do you do when you feel scared?