NVC Beginner's Pathway/ NVC Basics

NVC Beginner's Pathway/ NVC Basics

The Beginner’s Pathway offers a clear starting point for anyone new to Nonviolent Communication. This curated set of resources introduces the core ideas of NVC in a simple, accessible way, helping you build confidence with concepts like observations, feelings, needs, and requests while beginning to apply them in everyday life. Seasoned learners are also welcome to use this pathway as a gentle refresher.

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NVC Beginner's Pathway/ NVC Basics
  • NVC Life Hacks 40: Compassionate Requests

    Shantigarbha Warren, Certified NVC Trainer: Have you ever used the phrase "it was just a miscommunication."? We're often good at identifying when communication breaks down but not so good at finding out what went wrong and how we can improve. In this NVC Life Hack, we take a look at different typ...

  • Self-Empathy Basics

    Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: Watch this video and feel as if you are actually present at the workshop! Mary Mackenzie demonstrates two exercises that will help you learn fast "on the run" self-empathy techniques. These practical techniques guide you toward noticing your physical sensati...

  • The Power of Making Requests

    Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer: Mary Mackenzie explores the fourth component of Nonviolent Communication—making requests—and why it feels like "graduate level" NVC. Asking for what we truly want is vulnerable, yet it's also a profound gift of honesty and connection in our relationships. Wi...

  • Articles: NVC Basics

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  • You Sound Like a Therapist!

    Miki Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Miki Kashtan explains how using OFNR or "Classic NVC" is for practice, not real life situations.
    This is an excerpt from Miki Kashtan's 7 part course Naturalizing NVC Language, which is also available in the NVC Library.

    Keywords:

    - empathy
    - express...

  • Why NVC Matters To Me

    Mary Mackenzie, Certified NVC Trainer

    What drew you to Nonviolent Communication? In this touching reflection, Mary Mackenzie shares the moment that first lit her up with hope. In her very first class, she was asked to reflect on what she truly wanted in life—and realized there was a growing gap ...

  • When to Speak, When to Listen: An NVC Approach

    Oren Jay Sofer, Certified NVC Trainer: Oren J. Sofer offers an NVC approach to navigating tough moments—balancing honest self-expression with deep listening. Discover how centering yourself, naming your intentions, and hearing the other person first can create the understanding needed for true co...

  • Using Right & Wrong Language

    Yvette Erasmus, NVC Trainer:

    Yvette Erasmus shares that we can translate or shift how we hear right and wrong language. We can use the cue - What is needed? I wonder what they are needing? This helps direct my attention to more relationality.

    Keywords

    - language of life
    - needs
    - consc...

  • Parenting Series: Understanding Requests and Demands

    Inbal Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Inbal speaks to a group about our habit of demanding something of our children but making it sound like a request, the components of a true request and the importance of being honest when making a demand. Through an inspirational dialogue, Inbal demonstrates ...

  • Parenting Series: Compliance and the "Yes" Inside the "No"

    Inbal Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer: Inbal responds to the question "Is bribery an acceptable tool for compliance?' and helps us understand the five habitual reasons we do things. She further outlines two primary questions to consider when you're tempted to settle for merely getting your child's...

  • Parenting Series: When Your Child Only Has "No" for an Answer

    Inbal Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer

    In this video, expert parent trainer and author of Parenting From Your Heart, Inbal Kashtan responds to the age-old question: "Why do children do things to annoy parents?" Using jackal and giraffe puppets to illustrate common parent/child dialogues, Inbal ans...

  • Developing Empathic Presence

    Miki Kashtan, Certified NVC Trainer

    Miki Kashtan guides a participant to find his inner empathic presence.

    This is an excerpt from Miki Kashtan's 7 part course Naturalizing NVC Language, which is also available in the NVC Library.

    Keywords:
    - acceptance
    - connection
    - OFNR
    - naturaliz...

  • Why Am I Cringing? And What Can I Do About It?

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    Mika Maniwa and Leonie Smith, Certified NVC Trainers

    Why do we cringe? Perhaps we've been asked to convey our feelings and our needs but we have a sense that this authentic expression is not welcome. How do we handle this? In this session, you are invited to come and explore the power dynamics o...

  • The Purpose of NVC

    In this foundational teaching, Alan Rafael Seid explores the purpose of Nonviolent Communication: creating the quality of connection in which people naturally want to contribute to one another’s well-being. Using relatable examples, he contrasts the experience of disconnection with the ease and g...